Fredericksburg Family & Divorce Lawyers

Award-Winning Divorce Lawyers in Fredericksburg and Stafford, Virginia.Livesay & Myers, P.C. has a team of family law, custody and divorce lawyers in Fredericksburg, representing clients in Fredericksburg, Stafford, Spotsylvania and surrounding jurisdictions.

Courts in the Fredericksburg-Stafford area differ significantly from those in the larger jurisdictions to the north. The practices, procedures and expectations of courts in these jurisdictions are not always written down somewhere in a book. Many of them are learned only through years of experience in the courts and before certain judges. Our attorneys in Fredericksburg practice in these courts every day—they know the local judges and the local system.

Our family lawyers in Fredericksburg are:

Divorce Lawyer in Fredericksburg, Virginia.Caitlyn Stubbs is a family law and divorce attorney in Fredericksburg. She is experienced in handling every type of family law matter in Virginia, with a special focus on contested cases. Ms. Stubbs combines a love of the courtroom with a deep knowledge of family law, in pursuing the best results for each and every client. She is a graduate of Shippensburg University and a cum laude graduate of Thomas M. Cooley Law School. Ms. Stubbs was named a Super Lawyers Virginia Rising Star in 2018–2019 and currently holds a perfect 10.0 rating from Justia. She resides with her husband in Fredericksburg.

Divorce Attorney in Fredericksburg, Virginia.Benjamin Carafiol is a senior family lawyer in Fredericksburg. An attorney since 2008, Mr. Carafiol has litigated every type of family law matter in the courts of Fredericksburg, Stafford and Spotsylvania, including a large number of high asset divorce cases. As one of the leading military divorce lawyers in the firm, he is intimately familiar with the division of military retired pay and benefits in divorce. Mr. Carafiol was named a Super Lawyers Virginia Rising Star in 2016–2019 and currently holds a perfect 10.0 rating from Justia. He resides with his wife and daughter in Spotsylvania, Virginia.

Divorce Lawyer in Stafford, Virginia.Sarah Patras is a custody and divorce lawyer in Fredericksburg. She practices exclusively family law, representing clients in divorce, custody and support cases throughout the Fredericksburg-Stafford area. Originally from Iowa, Ms. Patras relocated to Virginia to attend the University of Richmond School of Law. After law school, Ms. Patras clerked for one year for a Virginia Circuit Court judge before joining Livesay & Myers, P.C. She was named a Super Lawyers Virginia Rising Star in 2019 and currently holds a perfect 10.0 rating from Justia. Ms. Patras resides in Fredericksburg.

These attorneys are supported in our Fredericksburg office by paralegals Ashley Constant, Michelle Evans and Mathew Hall.

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Our Fredericksburg Office

Our Fredericksburg office is open Monday through Friday, between the hours of 8:30 am and 5:30 pm. It is located at 303 Charlotte Street, just a block from the new courthouse in downtown Fredericksburg:

Our attorneys serve Fredericksburg, Stafford, Spotsylvania, Caroline, King George and surrounding areas.


The following is a sampling of client reviews for the attorneys in our Fredericksburg office:

“★★★★★ I was very pleased with my attorney [Caitlyn] Stubbs and the way my case was handled in a timely matter and most importantly I was granted primary custody of my son, I really couldn’t have asked for a better outcome. They are very professional and I would recommend them to anyone that wants the best representation.” – Ryan K.

“★★★★★ Ben [Carafiol] was a great attorney. He was cordial during the consultation and intently listened to my concerns. In court he was well prepared. Citing cases that were indisputable and seemingly had the state’s attorney conceding to Ben in the matter before he finished his remarks. Ben is certainly worthy of referring to anyone needing a dependable, professional attorney to fight on their behalf.” – Brandon H.

“★★★★★ This law firm never stops working for you. Sarah Patras was our attorney in a Family case where a lot of paperwork was involved and a lot of serious issues and inaccurate information needed to be addressed. Ms. Patras was optimistic from the beginning and gave us the confidence to move forward even when some other issues came up. Their paralegal Ashley Constant was always available even when Ms. Patras was tied up and they both stayed in constant communication throughout the entire ordeal. I could not be happier with the representation of Ms. Patras or the assistance of Ms. Constant. If you have a family law case you could not ask for a better fighter to stand up for you in court or with DSS. Livesay and Myers will truly fight to win your case and keep in contact every step of the way. This is a law firm you can trust. Thank you Sarah and Ashley and thank you Livesay and Myers.” – Stephen C.

“★★★★★ I normally don’t write reviews but decided to enter this one based on my experience with the staff at Livesay & Myers. When you hire a professional firm to represent you, you expect professional level service. When you hire Livesay & Myers you get so much more. Caitlyn Stubbs and her staff were beyond professional. They took time to understand the issue… they clearly looked after my interests and time… they introduced a successful approach… and brought the matter to closure quickly. Communications were timely and often enough without being overwhelming. Caitlyn was very conscience of the costs and did everything possible to keep the fees under control. When I need a law firm in the future I certainly hope that Caitlyn and her staff are available.” – Tom P.

“★★★★★ Absolutely phenomenal team to work with! I completed some online research for a Legal Separation and concluding Divorce, and Benjamin Carafiol’s name kept rising to the top of all listings. Now I know it was definitely for good reason. From the care and diligence of the initial phone call all the way through receiving the final divorce decree, Ben, Ashley, and his team were professional, responsive, and helpful in all ways. The expediency of the filings were above-par, and receipt of final original documentation, including a ‘next-steps’ listing of people/agencies to contact with changes, exceeded all of my expectations. Thank you for helping to always protect my interests and cover all of the logistical tasks associated with a Separation/Divorce.” – Sharon S.

“★★★★★ I hired Sarah Patras for my divorce. The same day I hired her, Ms. Sarah and her paralegal Ashley Constant started on my case, clarifying each step to me and following the progress of my case in the court system and emailing me about it daily. I did not have time to be stressed as they do not leave you in the dark waiting for what will happen next. I give them all my respect for the professional way they deal with their clients.” – L.S.A.

“★★★★★ I hired Caitlyn Stubbs to represent me in an uncontested divorce that crossed state lines. Caitlyn and her paralegal, Ashley Constant, were amazing and very responsive to my queries. They processed my divorce quickly and were very helpful during each step in the process. Thank you Caitlyn and Ashley!” – Lance K.

“★★★★★ I wanted to express my gratitude to Ben [Carafiol] and your team efforts and dedication to my case. Your professionalism and attention to detail made the process of my divorce less stressful. Even when I wanted to give up you and your team helped guide me and keep me on point. Your vast knowledge of divorce and military law/retirement helped me immensely. I personally recommend Ben Carafiol for anyone who needs a caring attorney. It was truly a pleasure working with you.” – Crystal W.

“★★★★★ In preparation for an uncontested divorce, I spoke with many lawyers but only the team Sarah Patras and Ashley Constant won my confidence. Every conversation left me feeling like I was the most important client they had. All questions were answered and I was never in the dark about what was happening next. I was blessed to have them on my team making an unpleasant situation bearable.” – Brent

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Contact Information:

303 Charlotte Street
Fredericksburg, Virginia
Phone: 540-370-4140

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