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Protective Order Defense: Understanding the Allegations

Posted on March 4th, 2016, by Laila Raheen in Family Law. No Comments

On occasion, a spouse in Virginia may find themselves defending against a petition for a protective order on the basis of family abuse without having complete knowledge or understanding of the allegations against them. This places that spouse at a tremendous disadvantage. However, the defending party can take certain steps in advance to determine the allegations against them so as to mount an effective defense.

Pursuant to Virginia Code Section 16.1-253.1, upon filing of a petition alleging that the petitioner is or has been, within a reasonable period of time, subjected to family abuse, the court may issue a preliminary protective order against an allegedly abusing person in order to protect the health and safety of the petitioner or any family or household member of the petitioner. Section 16.1-253.1 gives judges the authority to issue a preliminary protective order in an … Read More »


Making Child Marriage Harder in Virginia

Posted on March 2nd, 2016, by Benjamin Carafiol in Family Law. No Comments

Efforts to Restrict Marriage of Minors Advance Through Virginia Legislature

Many spouses going through separation and divorce lament that the laws of Virginia make it much easier to get married than they do to get divorced. A divorce proceeding requires a reason to want to end the marriage and in most cases the spouses must be separated for more than a year before their divorce can be finalized. This leads to the not-uncommon situation where spouses must live separately for longer than they were married before getting their divorce!

In contrast, to get married in Virginia, two eligible parties must only obtain a marriage license and perform a ceremony. There are no required blood tests or number or witnesses to validate a marriage. The age requirement for marriage in Virginia is sixteen for both parties. However, if either party is under eighteen, … Read More »


Valuing a Business in a Virginia Divorce

Posted on February 29th, 2016, by David Marquardt in Divorce, Family Law. No Comments

Determining how to handle a business asset is one of the most complicated issues in many divorce cases. Under Virginia divorce law, circuit courts are given the responsibility of fairly dividing the value of any marital property of the parties. Marital property includes any property acquired by either party during the marriage, regardless of how it is titled. Sometimes the parties own and work in a business together, in which case the value of the business is less important than how the business will evolve into the new situation where the owners are no longer married. More often than not, however, one spouse has an ownership interest in a business while the other does not, in which case the value of the ownership interest becomes increasingly important.

So How Do Virginia Courts Value a Business in Divorce?

The Supreme Court of Virginia … Read More »


What to Do if You Missed Your Court Date

Posted on December 29th, 2015, by Benjamin Griffitts in Criminal Defense. No Comments

I often receive calls from people who have missed a court date for a traffic or criminal matter in Virginia. These calls typically fit within three general categories: (1) the person wrote the wrong date on their calendar, then went to court only to find out that their matter had already been adjudicated or resolved; (2) the person completely forgot their court date and remembered after the fact that they needed to be in court; or (3) the person missed their court date and found out that law enforcement was attempting to serve them some kind of document.

Over the next couple of blog posts, I am going to address what you can do if you had a court date and missed it. In this first post, I will deal with cases where there is no possibility of incarceration. Later, I will … Read More »


Critical Enforcement Mechanisms in Family Law

Posted on November 2nd, 2015, by Matthew Smith in Family Law. No Comments

On many occasions in my practice, clients will complain that their spouse has been violating an agreement or court order. “She hasn’t been dropping the kids off on time,” or “he’s always late with his support check,” or the title to a vehicle was never signed over as required.

In a perfect world, everyone would follow what has already been agreed to, adhering to each and every detail laid out in a document adorned with each party’s signature. Unfortunately, divorce lawyers and their clients don’t operate in that utopian domain.

The truth is that reaching an agreement or having a judge enter a court order is only the first step in your family law matter. The second is making sure that it’s properly enforced, sending a clear message to the other party that violations are unacceptable and will be met with overwhelming … Read More »


Viewing Marriage as a Business and Divorce as the Dissolution

Posted on October 26th, 2015, by Ariel Baniowski in Divorce, Family Law. No Comments

“Am I going to have to pay spousal support?”
“I’ve been out of the workforce for fifteen years. Will I get any support?”
“It was my military service! Why should my spouse get a portion of my retirement?”
“I paid the mortgage every month. Why aren’t I getting a bigger percentage of proceeds from sale?”
“My spouse has never even attended a parent-teacher conference.”

Family law attorneys hear the above questions all the time. And, all the time, we have to tell our clients, whether good or bad, what their realistic expectations for their case should be. It would be irresponsible if we didn’t accurately represent possible realities to our clients. Sometimes when I review expectations with my clients, I like to ask that they assess their marriage as a business partnership. What were the terms of the partnership, what was its goal, what ethical and moral framework … Read More »


School Decisions for Minor Children After a Divorce

Posted on October 21st, 2015, by Jonathan McHugh in Custody, Family Law. No Comments

“I want my kids to get the best education possible.” I hear this statement, or some similar variation, from many clients. While this is a worthwhile goal, it becomes much more complicated when the parents are going through a divorce. Very often, the parties share very different opinions of what path would lead to a child receiving the “best” education possible.

After a divorce, parties typically share “legal” custody of their children. Legal custody does not have one definition, and in Virginia the court has the statutory authority to fashion a legal custody decision which it deems to be in the best interests of the child. The judge can order that the parties share equally in decision-making authority for educational matters related to the child, or can give final decision-making authority to one party or the other.

When parties decide to resolve … Read More »


Surrogacy in Virginia

Posted on October 15th, 2015, by Livesay & Myers, P.C. in Family Law. No Comments

Did you know that in surrogacy arrangements the birth mother of a child, not the donor mother, is legally the child’s mother in Virginia? Pursuant to Virginia Code Section 20-158, the parentage of a child conceived through assisted conception may not be what you thought.

Surrogacy cases usually involve the following parties:

Intended parents (who may also be known as the “donor parents”),
Surrogate mother,
The husband of the surrogate mother (if married), and
Licensed physician and/or fertility clinic.

There are two types of surrogacy arrangements. In traditional surrogacy, a surrogate mother is inseminated with sperm from a male in the intended couple, or from a donor. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate mother is implanted with an embryo, which can either come from the intended parents or from a donor. The significant difference between these two arrangements is that in gestational surrogacy the surrogate mother has no … Read More »


Spousal Support Reduction Based on a Drop in Payor’s Income

Posted on October 9th, 2015, by Laila Raheen in Divorce, Family Law. No Comments

In Virginia, a drop in the payor spouse’s income, even if significant, may not guarantee a reduction in spousal support. As explained in Modification of Spousal Support in Virginia, under Virginia Code § 20-109 a court may decrease or terminate spousal support if there has been “a material change in circumstances” or “as the circumstances may make proper.” Although a court may find a material change in circumstances based on a complete loss of or a drop in the payor spouse’s income, the court may still refuse to reduce the amount of spousal support if it finds that the payor still has the ability to pay.

For instance, in Lamb v. Lamb, although the payor spouse’s income had decreased considerably, the Virginia Court of Appeals refused to reduce the amount of spousal support because the payor had the ability to pay. The Court found that … Read More »


Asset Forfeiture in Virginia

Posted on October 6th, 2015, by Livesay & Myers, P.C. in Criminal Defense. No Comments

It may not surprise any reader here that law enforcement, both on the state and federal level, have tools at their disposal to prevent individuals charged with committing criminal offenses from profiting from such enterprises. What may surprise you, however, is that property can be seized and forfeited to the police absent a conviction—there’s no requirement under either Virginia or federal law that a crime even be charged. Common examples involve large sums of cash, vehicles or other property suspected of being involved with drug trafficking. This has become a controversial practice across the country and in Virginia, where legislative efforts in the last session to reform the process passed the House of Delegates but were defeated in committee in the State Senate.

There are two types of asset forfeitures: criminal and civil. Criminal forfeiture is the less controversial method of … Read More »




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